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How I started Courier Services

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I've been duly asked to write about motivations behind starting Courier Services on a mbombela, of all things. I hope as intended this will help any youngster laying around without a plan in this hard life and the adversities that accompany us. I never grew up with my parents around, neither did I have supportive relatives, so the privilege of nepotism is unbeknownst to me. I have never been recommended a job by a relative or parent, which is often the case with the employed youth who've got parents or relatives that pull some strings. For that matter I took to the streets and started selling bananas on a scorch-cart in 2019, to be frank I didn't have a direction myself or any career guidance, I didn't perform well academically too, I knew I was bound for and braced for a difficult life. Cats on my street who performed well academically even to tertiary level and had both parents at home were layabouts sinking in the quicksand of substance and alcohol abuse,

Navigating Dating with Women

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"I struggle with dating." is a common thing people say nowadays, especially the fellas. It is actually relatively too close to "loser/bhari" especially on men today, but is it really? It has taken me much confidence to assert that it is not associated with failure but it is a matter of positioning and opportunity. Growing up as a kid talking to a girl let alone girls was a status thing amongst boys, especially if you got them to giggle. The older I got the more I realized nah, we've been lied to. Calling the guy who was scared of/didn't get girls a loser was just baseless scorn, a deterrent. Losers are humbly and subtly marrying and leading beautiful family lives with modest down to earth women whilst the big and trophy boys turn to baby daddies, increase the single motherhood rate, claim their lives to STis or turn 36 and still messing with women in the club. But the "loser" who accounts for little to no history with women gets one girl and life p