Pursuit To Happiness

Like any average gent I've had a fair share of girls in my life. Not too much and not too little, my boys can attest to the fact that I was really a good boy; no threesomes no catching no perverted moves no rosters and no scandals, I kept my slate neat always and continue to, I just don't like funnies, and, now that I think of it, there's nothing like too little, one experience is good enough actually! Some okes only encounter one girl who favors them and they never look back, they marry them and life goes on, so one is fairly good enough.  With all that said, following my decent but countless experiences with the girlies from a childhood sweetheart to my high school crush to my first love to flings to bites and to close calls, amongst these is a unique experience which really rocked my days for a minute! I call her She-shells.  It was in July of 2016, I was just a youngster going through teenage things, a dysphoria and loneliness. My boys took me out to groove one time whe

Growing up is quite an interesting phenomenon if of course we look at the brighter side, otherwise it does really feel like a scam. It is intriguing how the mind develops and changes with whatever tide of perspectives, hearings and experiences divulged to it. What you thought before, or, what you were stigmatized to before can instantaneously change with a piece of rational information, if not instantaneously then manifestantaneously (look, I've just created a new word). I wrote an article just recently on  Chivhanhu , where I acknowledged and respected semi-traditional semi-prophetic/Christian blended practices by a chunk of Zimbabwean people. I furthermore slandered such people's socio-economic strains which render them impaired/negligent to and inconsiderate of medical and legal systems, road and infrastructural developments, industrialization, science and technology, design and architecture, and all things which shape developed countries. Nonetheless, on the art

A Pastor during what I recall to have been a Family Life Ministries sermon preached about the importance of and establishing a family. In his preaching he said the most profound thing which has since floated in my conscious and really put the icing on his sermon. I like when a sermon isn't solely based off the Bible but is also harmonized with real matters of life as we deal with life routines actively. The Pastor said and I will paraphrase "The real test and rubber stamp of growth, maturity and manhood is when you move out of your parent's house, out of family coffers, into your own shack, on your own cheque, marry from there and build/establish from there.. " - Ps Nkanyezi.                          Image Source : Tarie I have been intermittently putting little thought to this as it is such a difficult statement to digest. Actually, I have been avoiding putting much thought to it as it sounds stressful and inconsistent with the realities today whi